Recruiting Frequently Asked Questions

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Women’s college lacrosse recruiting can feel confusing for players and families, especially when you’re trying to understand timelines, coach communication rules, highlight videos, campus visits, and how to find the right college fit. The following FAQ answers common questions high school lacrosse girls and their parents have about getting recruited to play college lacrosse.

How do I get recruited to play college lacrosse?

  • Build a realistic college list
  • Keep your grades strong
  • Play for competitive club teams
  • Attend specific tournaments that attract college coaches
  • Create a quality highlight video
  • Communicate professionally with college coaches
  • Track your outreach

Want more tips? Check out the book, Committed: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Recruited for College Women’s Lacrosse, for actionable advice from 25+ college coaches and players.

When does the college recruiting process start?

The recruiting process starts earlier than you might realize. Players should begin learning about the process in middle school or early high school, but the real recruiting work usually begins during freshman and sophomore year.


This is when you should start building a college list, keeping track of grades and stats, collecting game film, attending competitive tournaments, and learning what different levels of college lacrosse look like. By sophomore year, you should also begin emailing coaches, sharing highlight film, and updating coaches with tournament schedules and academic information. For Division I and Division II programs, coaches have limits on when they can communicate directly with recruits, but players can still prepare early and send information before those communication windows open.

Learn about recruiting necessities and timing in the book, Committed: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Recruited for College Women’s Lacrosse.

Do I need a highlight video to get recruited?

Coaches often rely on video to evaluate recruits efficiently, so a simple, position-specific highlight video is one of the most important tools for getting on a school’s radar. It doesn’t need to be overly produced, but it should be clear, easy to watch, and focused on the skills college coaches want to see for your position. Get more tips about building an effective highlight reel in the book, Committed: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Recruited for Women’s College Lacrosse.

How do I know which college lacrosse division is right for me?

Division I lacrosse is a great goal, but it is not the right fit for everyone. DI programs usually require a major year-round commitment, strong athletic ability, and the ability to balance intense lacrosse demands with academics.

DII, DIII, NAIA, and club programs can also offer competitive lacrosse and may provide a better fit depending on your skill level, academic goals, and desired college experience. The best division is not always the highest one — it is the level where you can contribute, grow, enjoy college, and succeed academically. You can find more details in the book, Committed: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Recruited for Women’s College Lacrosse.

How do I contact college coaches for recruiting?

Email is a standard first step. Use your initial email to introduce yourself, share key academic and athletic information, include a highlight reel, and explain why you are a good fit for their specific program. You’ll then want to follow up with planned updates. Avoid sending the same generic message to every school.

Find proven email templates you can use to get a coach’s attention in the book, Committed: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Recruited for College Women’s Lacrosse.

When can college coaches contact me?

There is a formal timeline published for each division of when coaches can reach out to you, invite you for a school visit, and put together a formal offer. For example, NCAA Division I program coaches cannot offer a spot on a roster until after September 1st of your junior year.

Recruiting rules vary by division, and timelines can change so you’ll want to confirm NCAA, NAIA, and school-specific rules. Learn about the recruiting timelines in the book, Committed: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Recruited for Women’s College Lacrosse.

What is the purpose of visiting a campus?

A campus visit is your chance to decide whether a school truly feels like the right fit academically, athletically, socially, and personally. Look beyond the lacrosse facilities and ask yourself if you can see yourself living there, connecting with the coaches and players, and enjoying the school even without lacrosse. Pay attention to the campus environment, academic options, team culture, and whether the school offers majors or programs that interest you.

Get guidance on choosing the right school for you in the book, Committed: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Recruited for Women’s College Lacrosse.

What is the difference between an official and an unofficial visit?

An official visit is a campus visit that is paid for, at least in part, by the college or university. Official visits usually mean the coach has a serious level of interest in you as a recruit, because the program is choosing to invest time and resources into bringing you to campus.

An unofficial visit is a campus visit paid for by the athlete and her family. You may still tour campus, meet the coaching staff if NCAA rules allow, watch a practice or game, and get a feel for the school, but your family is responsible for travel, meals, lodging, and other expenses. Unofficial visits are a great way to explore schools early, compare campuses, and show genuine interest in a program.

Both types of visits are valuable, but they serve slightly different purposes. Learn more about campus visits in the book, Committed: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Recruited for Women’s College Lacrosse.

How can I find out more about the recruiting process for women’s college lacrosse?

Check out the book, Committed: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Recruited for Women’s College Lacrosse.

It offers step-by-step guidance, recruiting timelines, coach communication tips, highlight video advice, and tools to help you stay organized from your first email to your final decision. Whether you are just starting the recruiting process or already communicating with college coaches, the book is designed to help players and families understand what to do, when to do it, and how to approach recruiting with confidence.